Here is another point of view for you:
1) Use 5/8" plywood instead of 3/4". Since there is no standardization in the stone industry there are times when 3/4" plywood will show beneath the lamination. As far as the adhesive? Silicone! Enough said about that.
2) Use a grinder with a 1/4" thick rodding blade. It is a time use, but if you use a thinner blade you will need to make multiple cuts to fit in a rod that is 1/4" thick.
3) That seam should be fine if it is fully supported from beneath.
4 & 5) The router bit, the dry pads and instructional DVD's can be found at
www.defusco.comWe have done this many times before and taught many do-it-yourselfers how to use these router bits and to dry polish to match the factory finish.
6) The rodding will help support it while moving carefully from the work area to the install area.Just use common sense and don't transport it horizontally.
This is a do-able project for a weekend warrior, and we will help you do it! if you want to talk about the project feel free to call me at the office at 800-289-6834.
Glad to be of service,
Mark