Yes, the 35" - a true 45 has a cleaner look than the jigsaw puzzle way you describe after that.
I wouldn't bevel it, a straight cut is fine. Any time you cut an angle you take a chance of things not fitting correctly. A lot of things look good on paper but don't work that way in application.
for the drop in sink, why don't yo use your grinder with a 4 1/2" blade (5" if it is 3cm slab)? Since you already have a grinder that would be your best bet. I would recommend one of these:
http://www.defusco.com/supreme-granite-turbo-blade-p-1819.htmlhttp://www.defusco.com/disco-blue-stone-turbo-blade-p-2105.htmlIt is generally run the length of the stone under the weak portion to strengthen it for transporting the slab from the shop to the customer's home. If you are not transporting it and there is support underneath (a subdeck on your cabinets or even the top lip of the cabinet where you need to support the weak link) it would not be necessary. You might want to call me about this at 800-289-6834.
Glad to be of service,
Mark