WOW, Mark! Wake up on the wrong side of the bed today, or are you peeved that I called you out on the fact that you clearly did not read/comprehend my first post?
Either way, no need to take a trip to doucheville.
In reply to your riveting post-
No, I am not "one of those customers" who is looking for prefab at $15-20. I never look for the lowest "deal" when it comes to my home. Thus, the reason for my original post- EVERY fabricator I had contacted gave me the same song and dance. I thought it was unreasonable and wanted to make sure I wasn't crazy for expecting more. I am someone who will pay what I need to pay in order to have something done the right way. No problems there.
Unfortunately for me, this is my first time having to contract for granite, and until a few days ago, I didn't know that some companies use bridgesaws and some use CNC fabrication.
Fortunately for me though, I take everything a contractor says with a truckload of salt, and decided (despite multiple establishments trying to convince me that "no granite fabricator would be able to cut granite without gaps") to investigate before I settled for something I did not want.
I am so sorry that this post read "like a joke" to you, Mark. Not that I imagine your sense of humor is anything to brag about- but please consider that not all of us are as schooled in the wonderful world of granite as you, sir. Some people come to forums to actually get constructive (gasp!) advice.
I do not want a granite backsplash (like I said in my LAST post- there will be a glass tile one installed after the countertops) because the kitchen is very modern and lines are very minimal. The granite backsplash just does not work with the aesthetic of the kitchen.
At any rate, after I read the tone of your first response, I decided to post on another forum where I found there were quite a few people from my area. They gave me some great recommendations, and of the three rough estimates (based on the drawing I did) I have gotten so far, all three use CNC fabrication and electronic templating- and all three are in the same price range as the hacks I had been dealing with previously.
"What are you note telling us?" lol I dunno, Mark- I thought my first post was fairly detailed and thorough. I uploaded a drawing and noted the areas where I was told gaps would be. Not sure what other information you might have been looking for. Sorry to destroy your dreams of this being a high stakes granite conspiracy.

Thank you for your valuable time, Mark. Maybe in the future, you can make an effort to actually read posts and then give advice without being condescending. What are you doing on a forum like this if you find it so difficult to do so?